Siblings make me stressed [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.07.29]

Siblings make me stressed [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.07.29]


“I Want to Run Away.” Hello. I’m a 12-year-old girl that wants to live alone quietly. Is that funny? I think you surprised Jeno. I’ve never heard this in person. Hi, sweetie! (I love that voice) These days I feel like running away from home. There’s one person that I wish would disappear. “Have you seen my slime?” “Nope.” “Liar! You hid it! Give it to me! Take this! I’m going to pinch you!” My 10-year-old sister pinches me and pesters me. But this is even worse. “Sis, I want to play too. I’m going to climb on your back!” Splat! I have a 9-year-old little brother too. 9 years old. My siblings always follow me around and bug me. I just want to leave this home. I was so upset that I tried telling my mom. “But your siblings are younger than you. You try talking to them.” I tried talking to them and yelling at them, but my siblings won’t change. Gosh, what a life? And… What is death? I cry all the time and this keeps happening. I don’t feel like living anymore. Please do something about my stress. This is a relatable concern. Sam, how many siblings do you have? I have six siblings. Where are you? I’m the second oldest. I have 5 younger siblings. – That must’ve been hard on your mom. / – Sure. I totally understand this concern. Two siblings are driving this girl crazy. But you have five younger siblings. How did you discipline them? I was… I was the problem. Why? How so? I was a bad kid. For example, when I was a kid my parents wanted to have a hot night together. I didn’t understand what that meant. I tried to burn my mom’s mattress. – Because burning it… / – Would make a hot night? (Disbelief) You took it literally. You’re a good son. (Sam’s burning desire to be a good son) How embarrassing. (Sam’s so funny) So a 12-year-old girl wrote to us about her siblings that stress her out. Let’s bring her out! (Who wants to run away because of her siblings?) (Jang Subin) Hold his hand. This way. Can you introduce yourself? Hello. I’m 12 years old and my siblings are killing me. (Gloomy) (So gloomy from the start) What did she say? I thought she was rapping. She sounded so concerned just now. Can you introduce yourself again loudly? Hello. I’m 12 years old and my siblings are killing me. (You can tell she’s serious by her voice) Everyone here is on your side, Subin. We’re all going to listen carefully, – so just relax and speak your mind. / – Okay. That pink cushion matches her shirt. Yeah, did see how it matches your shirt? Even her socks. Matching colors. (So color-coordinated) You look good! So your siblings pester you so much that you had to write to us? Yes. My sister always pinches, scratches and hits me. – This is where she scratched me. / – It left a mark. I can still see a mark. She scratched and slapped me earlier. – In the green room? / – Yes. My mom bought French fries yesterday. My sister didn’t want any, so I ate them all. She said, “Why’d you eat all my fries?” When she said she didn’t want any? The nerve of this girl. – She said she didn’t want any. / – Yeah. My brother doesn’t respect my sister either. Now he pesters my sister too. He’s like the king now. – The youngest? / – Yes. I see him up there. He looks very charismatic. (This 9-year-old has quite an aura!) What do you hate the most? They barge into my room. You’re at a sensitive age. They hang out in my room. They play games and read books. They don’t have their own rooms? They do. They each have their own room. I’m jealous. I don’t even have my own room now. (Inner thoughts of a married man) They have a bunk bed and a better softer bed. But they take over my desk and bed. I don’t have any freedom. You should yell at them when they do that. I try to, but it doesn’t work. My sister shows no regret. How do you yell at them? Show us. “Hey, stop bothering the cat.” Like that. – That’s yelling? / – Yes. – That didn’t sound like yelling. / – That was weak. (I tried being harsh) Do your parents say anything? Do they try to stop your siblings? My parents got really mad last summer. But these days, my mom just tells us to figure it out on our own. What about your dad? My dad always takes my sister’s side. – Your sister’s side? / – What does he say? Even when he sees my sister hit me, he tells me not to yell too harshly at her. And how did you feel? I felt like nobody’s on my side. So that’s how you felt. (Poor thing…) Your brother seems so charismatic. Let’s meet the younger siblings. Shall we meet the sister first? Hi there! Hi! Grab the mic. (The youngest one has swag) (I’m the king of this household) (Youngest) (I’ll show you what real fear is) (Second) (Am I trembling now?) Hello. Trying to sound cute. My name is Jang Yunseo. Jang Yunseo. Did you know your sister’s having a hard time? Yes. Why do you think she’s having a hard time? Because we bother her. How does it feel hearing your sister’s concern? I think I was wrong. She suddenly admits to it. She admits it and she knows she was wrong. You just want to end things here right away? (It’s not like that) Why did you scratch your sister before you came into the studio? My sister slapped me first. You slapped her first? (Quite a twist) My sister hit me first. This makes it hard to take your side. She picked a fight with me first. And she scratched me. So I slapped her first and she slapped me back. (They’re both to blame) She hits me back twice when I hit her once. (These sisters are at war) Your siblings just want to play with you, but you won’t play with them. Maybe that’s why… I agree with that. She agrees too. They’re good at admitting things. My siblings ask me to role play with them. But most of the time, I end up dying. Those are your roles. It isn’t fun. Their stories are never fun. Give us an example. – A palace. / – A palace? They insist their characters can’t die. They get angry if I say they’ll die. They play the princess and prince. What about you? – A vassal. / – A vassal? That’s no reason to be sad. My older siblings made me be the palace. They made me the palace. (Gosh) I had to play a building. How cute. At least you got to play people. Subin, you made your siblings sound rotten, but your sister sounds so nice. They act like angels in front of other people. But they turn into devils at home. Some kids are like that. They’re sweet in public, but they’re mean at home. Let me ask them. Do you agree with your sister or is she wrong? I think she’s right. (It’s like she was waiting for this) She admits it right away. Is that your family motto? What do you think your sister thinks about you? I think she takes me for a pushover. (Don’t treat your big sister like that) Do you think your sister is a pushover? (Admission by silence) She admits it again. Yunseo, what kind of big sister is she? Someone to annoy. Someone you annoy? She’s someone to annoy. She thinks that way too. (That’s a bit much…) I want to hear from the brother. Let’s meet the boss. (Time for the boss to talk) (Nice to meet you, sir) Hi, can you introduce yourself? (Achoo) Sorry about that, sir. Do you annoy your oldest sister a lot? – Is that what you think? / – Yes. (They’re so good at admitting things) (Then why do you keep annoying me?) Why do you keep bothering your oldest sister? She always says no. (When did I do that?) And I wanted to play with one of her toys, but she said no. She won’t let me play with her phone. Then how do you annoy her? I climb on her. Or I tie up her favorite doll. Her favorite doll? – You tie it up? / – You tied it up? – He ties it up. / – To where? To a chair leg. He tied a doll to a chair leg? What did the doll do wrong? Does that upset you? – Yes. / – It upsets her. My other sister annoys me too. (I have no allies here) Tell us everything. What does she do? She hits and scratches me. One time, she stepped on my privates when I was lying down. That was a mistake! (Gosh, that’s a bit much) She did it on purpose, but she said it was a mistake. – It really was a mistake! / – She lied to me. Second daughter, please be quiet. (Bickering) (What will I do about them?) Let’s meet the parents. Hello, parents. (Hahaha) (Gosh) – Hello. / – Hello. (They all look the same) (They all look the same) I don’t know if I should say this, but the five of them look really alike. (Anyone can tell they’re a family) Your oldest wrote to us because she’s concerned. Did you know she was having such a hard time? Yes, you had a girl around her age here that was – concerned about a younger sibling. / – Right. I wish my little sister would disappear. I feel like dying. My daughter cried after seeing that episode. That’s when I realized she was really stressed. – So she related to that episode. / – Yes. What did you relate with? That she was having a really hard time because of her younger sister. You could relate to that. That’s what made you cry while watching it? What do you think about her wanting to run away? I was really shocked. Subin was never bad or disobedient. She’s always sweet and kind, so I never worried. But around 6 months ago, she’d call me in tears after school. “Mom, don’t die. You have to live with me and dad for a long time.” She kept saying that and crying. (Choking up again) She says you don’t care about her. She feels that nobody’s on her side. What do you say about that? I don’t think that’s true. It’s not like I can take sides with my kids. I try to tell them to work it out and get along. I think they’re all very different. Your kids are so different. (Even during the shoot…) He’s like a boss! Gosh. (Don’t sit like that) It’s okay, you can put your leg up. (Wary) (Oh, whatever) (Lalala) (Boss swag) (I do what I want) (Sigh) Let’s hear from the father. I suspected something was going on, but I didn’t think it was so serious. After hearing from her, she said that you always take her sister’s side. I see why she thought that way. But for me… The first is the greatest. The thumb would hurt the most if you bite your fingers. (We’ve never heard of that before) Your thumb hurts the most? It hurts the most. I thought every finger would hurt if you bite it. But you say your thumb hurts the worst. Now I want to bite each finger. You should. So the first is really greatest. I was really sweet to her when she was younger and I don’t want her to think I’m playing favorites, so I try to be careful. I tell her to watch over her siblings as the oldest. I tell her to let things go and share. I tell her things like that, which is why she probably felt hurt. “You’re the oldest, so you have to be mature.” That’s what you said to her. My mom says, “You guys are lucky to have a sweet big sister.” – To your siblings? / – I bet. (That puts more pressure on the oldest) Do I have to be submissive because I’m the oldest? When I was a kid, no matter what my siblings did to annoy me my parents always said, “You’re older.” They always told me I should be more mature. As a kid, I often thought that my parents didn’t love me. (My parents don’t love me…) Do you have any other concerns? Aside from your siblings. The kids at school teased me from 1st grade until the first semester of 3rd grade. – Why? / – Why? Because of my name. I’m Jang Subin. They called me a wasp or a beetle. – Because of your name… / – Wasp, beetle. My nickname was E. coli. “Gross, get away from me, E. coli!” So the kids at school teased you and you got home. Then your siblings mess with you, so you were sad? Yes. (She gets no respect at school or at home) I think these are just minor arguments the kids get in as they’re playing together. But Subin is at a sensitive age. She seems to be taking this sensitively. And I can’t do anything about that. Subin just wants you to listen to her. – She wants someone to talk to. / – Right. She wants someone to take her side. Sometimes you just want to be consoled. “That must’ve been hard for you.” Like that. (I’m very lonely) (Thinks) I think I should listen to Subin more from now on. She’s the oldest, so you need to treat her like the oldest around her siblings. “Don’t do that to your big sister.” You should say that around all three of your kids. “You kids are lucky to have such a nice big sister.” Say, “She’s nice, but she’s scary when she’s mad.” You shouldn’t keep telling your other kids that their big sister is kind and sweet. Subin takes action too. Last time I told Subin to really yell at her younger siblings. She tried to be harsh with them, but they got even tougher with her. They grabbed and pulled her hair. That’s why she can’t beat them. (Her younger siblings are too rebellious) You shouldn’t just think of this as siblings fighting. When in Rome, do as the Romans do. All families have rules. “Knock before entering someone else’s room.” “Don’t touch things without asking.” You need rules like that. If they won’t listen, you can punish them by cutting their allowance. Or put them on a time out. They’ll start changing to avoid those punishments. (They’ll start changing and following the rules) (The parents need to get involved too) Any closing words for Subin to cheer her up? We’ll try to pay more attention. I’ll talk to the younger ones. We’re going to try harder. (She shyly flashes a heart) (We hope this family changes) Let’s ask our guest panel. Since the parents can’t control them. I bet the siblings do things the parents don’t know. I can really understand how hard this must be for her. This is a huge concern for her. I think it must’ve been really hard for her. I also think it’s a concern. If you think this is a concern, press the button! 5, 4, 3, 2, 1! Time’s up! So many people on your side, Subin. – I heard a lot of votes. / – Do you feel better now? Yes. Let’s see the results. “I Want to Run Away.” Please show us. Subin. Subin. This concern wins if it gets 167. – I think this will win. / – How many votes? (147 votes) This means today’s winner is “Too Much Boyfriend.” Congratulations! The winners get a cash prize. Congratulations. Until the day Korea has no concerns Hello Counselor will be rooting for you all! – Thank you! / – Thank you!

100 comments on “Siblings make me stressed [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.07.29]

  1. Peachy Blueberry Post author

    Dominican parent would take out la chancletas,la Correa,la cuchara,el peine, and everything else in the house

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  2. azuall A Post author

    I honestly think that this show should have a professional counselor I don't mean that they are bad or whatever that may be but honestly they should have a counselor.

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  3. Cindy Jiang Post author

    I can relate. My parents always tell me I'm older so I have to help my brother and empathize with him. I have to do things for him since I'm older. I take care of everything and my parents would always call me to do chores while he plays games all day. I can't even complain or look annoyed or they'll get mad. What's different is that my problem is with my parents not siblin. Now I just want to graduate high school as soon as possible and move away overseas. They can be fun and parentlike but many times I just feel like I'm suffocating.

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  4. Jessica Is Magical Post author

    Ugh I rarely watch this anymore and I see why… so I guess after the pedo father episode the route was to have more jokes -.-

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  5. Kayla Guerrero Post author

    I can relate because I have a sister who always follows me where I go and bothers me, but we get along.

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  6. thearcherayuk Post author

    The one who should be shame is their parents. Mostly asian thinks its OK/ can tolerate for the younger one behaviour, but that's where The parents supposed to act as a parents, told whats good or not. For a 12 yo kid, the way She said all negative words (she want to die, leaving house etc) as if its not a big deal is worrying.

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  7. dave arc Post author

    The parents are the problem here those 2kids should be thankful that they don't have a older sibling like my brother

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  8. Holy Moly Post author

    5:46 the program pay that two girl to show their bitchy face when they're talking about the girl's dad? lol
    Sorry my grammar

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  9. Micheal Jen Post author

    to be honest actually this problem start from the parents. if parent dont do anything to change their kids manner they will become violence and hurt other peoples.

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  10. jae jenshies Post author

    The parents are at fault here too. As a parent, they should tolerate and discipline their children. No one should take sides. Even if she's 12, you cant just say that she should figure it out on her own. She asked for your help but thats your answer? Sounds like an irresponsible parent. And also, maybe the sister is also a bit too much since her brother and sister just wants to play with her but she keeps on declining but that's not an excuse to disrespect someone older than you. Discipline is really needed here.

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  11. Alizwa Mani Post author

    I so understand how this girl feels. When I was growing up, every time my sister would fight with me I would end up getting in trouble. If she hit me first and I hit her back then I would get punished since I was the oldest which really bothered me but when my dad was still alive I could deal with it cause he was on my side. After he passed away it still continued and my sister got worse cause she realized that she cud do anything to me and I could never react and she could never get in trouble, she didn't respect me at all which was what made it hard to take care of her when we were alone. At that point my relationship with my mother was bad cause I felt like she didn't love me, I wanted to die too cause I felt like the only parent who loved me was gone and now I was alone. Years later when I was in high school my mom overheard my sister swearing at me and chasing me around the house with a shoe in her hand and my mom asked what was happening and my sister accused me of being the one doing those things so my mom realized how my sister really had been acting. She called a family meeting where I poured my heart out and she finally reprimanded my sister. After that where fights and behavior are concerned she checked my sister when she did something wrong and even though the favoritism is still there it has been easier to swallow since there is no disrespect between us siblings anymore. As for my mom, I have long accepted that she has her favorite and that's never gonna change but she does love me too, but even if that is the case all this has really damaged my self confidence and the way I feel about myself , I'm 28 years old now and I'm still dealing with confidence and self love issues so I do hope that they take this seriously cause there's still time to change it.

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  12. gladitsnotme Post author

    Wow, this is the first time I've ever seen a host give ACTUAL ADVICE on this show! This is why Youngja won the entertainer of the year award! She straight up told them how to parent their damn spawn. She's not even a parent herself, but she could do a better job.

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  13. lailatul hidayah Post author

    I think parenting is so important here. They can't simply said to the kids that they need to figure it out by themselves because they probably don't know what they should do. Plus, the eldest is in a very crucial and sensitive age. This may can lead to low self-esteem in the future.

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  14. Rhea RJ Post author

    These kids are lucky they live in Korea,

    My Mexican mom would’ve already beaten them so bad they’d turn purple(it’s happen to be once)

    These kids ;-;

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  15. Fapd Post author

    Than, I and my sibling's is the upgrade version of them~
    They are 12, 10 and 9 y.o
    We are about 20, 15, and 12 y.o

    What a life!

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  16. Chae Won Post author

    This is gonna be a bigger problem for the siblings once they grow older. The more they tolerate their attitude the more they'll show how bully they are until they will be the one ending up getting bullied by other people. PARENTS NEED TO DISCIPLINE THEM PROPERLY WHILE THEY ARE STILL YOUNG AT AGE.

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  17. Ami Space Post author

    Ofcourse. Another hello counsler episode where parents are being told to do what they should already be doing.??‍♀️ Parenting?

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  18. Quin Ester Post author

    I think the problem lies in the parents. Tell your younger kids NO, THATS RUDE TO TREAT OLDER SIBLINGS LIKE THAT ?

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  19. Mystery Meat Soup Post author

    They shouldve done another animation for this intro, it would've been hilarious for this concern

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  20. stan day6 and skz Post author

    the eternal plague of the eldest sibling. i'm 20 now and this shit will never end you just gotta beat their asses until you leave for college/university lol

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  21. Neo Monsta Sonyeondan Post author

    the sister & brother literally looked like bullies, idk something in their eyes, they looked so cold & mean … the brother really looked like he's going to be some heartless mafia chef later … i really hope the parents show the now that there are boundaries, i mean every child needs some rules, they can't just do everything themselves, they need to see if smth is right or wrong.. but if the parents don't do anything about bullying then they think it's ok.. and it's also not just some trivial things like the mother thinks, this hurts her little soul so much & can really end in her trying to run away or k*ll herself, like korea hasn't one of the highest suicide rates for nothing… people can be really heartless & have no understanding of what bullying does.. it's actually so concerning, like in germany there are often anti bully projects in school & everyone tries to make it better, but I doubt there is this awareness in korea…

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  22. Chloe Post author

    I probably shouldn’t say this cuz it’s not related to the problem at all but nana’s smile is literally making my heart burst.

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  23. ARMY 0613 Post author

    I can understand even I don’t have any siblings or cousins……I lived in hostel,there were 4 girls including me and I was the oldest….They really annoyed me and I was really tired about that!!But the boys from hostel made me feel better by telling me jokes…..I love them a lot(Not in that way but in brother way)

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  24. Emi Post author

    Dude those kids need a latin parent; my mom would kick me from house if a decide to be that cruel to my sister.

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  25. 서 시열—Seo Shiyeol Post author

    The parents literally did not care at all.
    Why even have kids if you can’t raise them or care for them?!

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  26. Nam Taekook Post author

    I am also the eldest I was not satisfied and really regretted that my parents had always told me to sacrifice. But never tell others about me or respect me

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  27. Bubblelene Lene Post author

    My brother is like satan, he kicks me, he hits me, smacks me. One time he use a pen and legit scraped my skin with it, it was bleeding and it hurts so much. He once even threw his phone at my head because I held his sleeping mask. He cursed and blames everything on me. He called me a b*tch and told my parents I taught him that. He broke my iPad and said I broke his first, his was perfectly fine ! My parents often doesn’t care, they just say “hug it out or I’ll take your phones”. Once my brother threw my shoes at me because I accidentally laughed at him, my parents did nothing at all. They just pretend to know everything when they don’t. They think of my brother as an angel, and I should take care of him. He often stays at my room, he has a room, he has everything, a computer, an iPad, a phone, a Nintendo switch, everything a 10 year old wants. I have just a phone and a brother who just can’t leave me alone. He just can’t stop going to my room, he reads, eats, sleeps, everything in my room. I tried kicking him out, he just won’t leave my room, and when I complain my parents they say that we should share. How can we share when he doesn’t do his part ? My brother often lies, once he told everyone in his class I was a lesbian, that’s not something go joke about. My parents say “oh because you don’t play with him”, you don’t have the right to say that when you’re away all the time. I do play with him, it’s him who isn’t fair. My brother is a true Satan who doesn’t care about me, he always say non sense stuff like “Oh you go have sex with him” or “I hope someone bulge your eyes out” or “I hope you have kids then be abandoned onto the streets” I have no parts in teaching him that. I often try stopping him from watching the aggressive videos he watch, it curse, it yells. My brother even watch porn, yes at age 10, I have seen inappropriate pictures in his phones before, I tried telling my parents and he told my parents I introduced porn to him, I would never do that. My mom takes my brother’s side while my dad usually is equal. Whenever my brother kicks me, my mom goes “stop messing around you two” when I clearly did nothing wrong. Then when I do it back and he smacks me, my mom scolds me ! I usually don’t start a fight first, it’s just him and his “sassy attitude” often gets in the way and it is unbearable when your brother spits everything you say back at you.

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  28. Alice J Post author

    I speak from experience that one day Subin will reach a point she acts violently to her siblings and that is when she will not only strike fear in her siblings but in her parents as well. Then the relationship between her and her siblings will be broken for good, those parents need to discipline the younger ones better before Subin gets violent or the siblings do.

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  29. Pheriba Lopez Post author

    The people that didn’t vote it as a concern are younger siblings lol
    I totally relate because my younger brother is completely out of hand, and despite being the oldest, I’m the smallest… I couldn’t really use force anymore at a certain point because words never worked. My younger sister didn’t bother me, but she would do nothing around the house and my brother would do nothing too. Just a ramble about younger siblings getting away with too much lol

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  30. My profile may have Tricked u Post author

    These kids really need a fucking whooping and so do the parents because those 4 are so ignorant on how they act , if my mom or dad saw my siblings acting like this they would woop their asses and so would I

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  31. Meia Amieyrah Post author

    I think every firstborn can relate to this. You are the eldest,so you have to be more matured. Me and my brother were separated by 2 years so I can totally relate this. I also used to tell straightly to my parents that they don't love me and they just love my siblings. That's hurt them a lot but I don't even show that I regret what I said.

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  32. Amanda Post author

    Those siblings are soo lucky to have a kind sister like that, she doesn’t get scary when her younger siblings annoy her. If I try to annoy my older sister in any way or eat her ice cream I’ll be dead meat?

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  33. KPOP STAN Post author

    omg the mum face just looks like she doesnt care and makes me wanna hit some senses into her

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  34. Alexandra Sepúlveda Nazario Post author

    I get her concern, I would get angry if I my siblings didn’t respect me and would treat me as a push over. It may not seem like a big problem to people but as parents they need to set boundaries, yeah they treat her like that because is her sister (and its not okay) but just imagine them treating others as push overs is simply not okay

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  35. Michelle Heng Post author

    11:04 when that kid said he got stepped in the balls, Jeno felt the second hand feeling of it LMAOO he got his eyes scrunched at that

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  36. Cheryl Medeiros Post author

    Mother is too dismissive of Subin! She needs to be careful, the suicide rates in Korea are high! If the middle one hits and scratches there should be consequences for all of them if they do that. The middle one seems like a really mean middle child!

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  37. Foxy Dark Post author

    I Can feel you girl, my brother is like this too and I Can't do anything, because then im the bad one. ? 사랑해???

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  38. Sofia Royal Post author

    The fact that she doesn't feel respected at all weather it's at home or at school must be really heavy on her,, she'll see people thinking of her as easy and someone to annoy and play with and that she'll stay silent. That would hurt her and instead of keeping quiet because she doesn't wanna argue she will end up keeping quiet because she will feel lonely and not supported ?
    Each human deserve self respect, it is frustrating when people doesn't respect you as a person and doesn't respect your feelings

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  39. Some werid person Post author

    Lol i only hit my sis once playfully (sometimes) then she hits me multiple times its verey annoying and hurts

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  40. Woogukie 97 Post author

    little sister: hits her sister
    older sister: stop hitting me
    dad: stop yelling at your younger sister for hitting you

    HOW TF DOES THAT WORK

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  41. BangChanie_ Cheoeumiji Post author

    I always heard my friends complaining about their younger siblings (I lived in Korea) but I was the younger one. My parents told me to ask my sister from time to time “Unnie am I really annoying?” If she yes then I would try to fix it, if she said no I would smile and she would give me chocolate. I sometimes wish Korea didn’t have the age ranking system as maybe these issues wouldn’t exist.

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  42. Kiya jeon Post author

    The parents don’t seem to care at all which is so sad! They should take care of their children’s mental and physical health as well, obesity is dangerous they might get diabetes later on which is no fun

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  43. Marly R. Post author

    What makes me so mad is hat the 10 year old girl is like smiling everytime someone mentioned the things she did the Subin and i think the child that needs to be disciplined more is the 10 year old

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  44. doyeon. Post author

    me being the youngest and hates my brother who is always by himself. i mean, im not trying to say that they’re right but it’s just that most older siblings like to have privacy to themselves and friends and i get that. but i feel so lonely. like when i want to play with him, he always rejects.

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  45. Ambi Cahira Post author

    When they are in a culture where you respect your elders they really must teach the younger kids to respect eachother but especially the older ones. It's the parents job to teach how to cope with situations and emotion and especially conflict. Teach them HOW to solve it. Frustrating.

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  46. Park Kpop Post author

    As a teen , I can relate to this girl at the highest peek. _ just that my parents are more responsible than hers

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  47. bonna Post author

    Personally, I think it’s more than just the little siblings. When she talked about what happened backstage, it proved that these events are more than just “her sister doing it.” These siblings do not seem like angels but i also see the older sister victimizing herself a lot, I think it’s an all around problem and they should all change a little to figure it out :/

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  48. Sakura_Willow Post author

    Thing is the parents thought that they were playing when the siblings were hitting their older sister.

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  49. aishah hoosh Post author

    Why is everyone so nice to these kids like fr fr leave them with me id scare them without even touching them ?

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  50. Jasmine Post author

    The younger ones look like gangster.
    Just now, their eyes are about to cut the oldest sister into pieces when they stare at her.

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  51. Eri Post author

    The parents seem don't care. Idk but i genuinely worried about that girl. She's being bullied in school and stress at home. She's only 12 y.o ?

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  52. Time Bomb Terry Post author

    I grew up on a 40 acre plot of land that all my family lived on. So during the summers, there were 6 kids running around the property. When one got in trouble, we all did. I remember having to file into the house one by one and all of us getting whooped as we passed through the door. Lucky they weren't raised by my family.

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  53. Caity Post author

    I agree with Korea’s culture, that older age should be more respected, but no matter the age, a standard of respect should be upheld. Hitting anyone of any age is not tolerable. Teaching respect for people is not taking sides.

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  54. Erin Post author

    idky yall r saying theYre luCky to be living in Korea. Believe me…. idk where yall glossed over the fact that we dont get punished sksk

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  55. Virgin Intan Yestiana Post author

    I still remember when i was a kid, and my brother annoyed me for every damn minute, and my father just went "dont cry and come to me but annoy him twice"

    LMAO and surprisingly I and my siblings could live happily till this very day

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  56. Yasmin Hafiz Post author

    I really relate to her concern. I hv a big brother and ofc he’s a boy and barely do any chores but always got money from my dad bcs he’s sTuDyInG as if i didnt go to sch smh. So i always give hint to my parents that i hate this kind of discrimination but they didnt listen and put me in life that i hate

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  57. Huney.Hyunjin 1997Kookie Post author

    Jeno and Jaemin’s reaction when the youngest son said
    “she stepped on my private part”
    gosh I love them so much
    ??

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  58. Heidi Lee Post author

    I relate to this episode so much. I sometimes just want a parent that listens and helps instead of lecturing how to be a better older sister. And it's even worse when my parents tell their friends that I'm a teen and that's why I'm taking it so sensitively. BECAUSE I'm a teen I need someone to comfort and take care of me. I think that 50% of the problem sometimes is the parents because they don't discipline their youngest much because they think their oldest is an angel and will do anything they ask

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  59. พออิมอ พิมพ์ Post author

    I'm so happy that I don't have dad and mom like this (sorry that I use the word too hard or bad) . I have 1 sister. They teach me to respect each other.they didn't tell me like you have to share this / forget it / forgive her cause I'm a big sister. And yes, we're happy!! my sister know how to be the cute young sis and I try to be a good person to her too ?When I saw this, I feel bad with her hope you grow up with more happiness. Please smile more and the good thing will come to you dear?

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